S is for Strap – On.

And also for sissies, who you know I adore!  In fact my most recent audio is just special for my sissy girls.  You can listen to it at Sissyville and hear all about learning to color coordinate your outfits.  Some of you do need help with things like that so make sure to give me [...]

R is for Restraint.

It took me awhile longer than usual to decide just what I wanted to use for R. There are so many things and I vacillated between them for 2 days. It seems like R is one of those letters, like S that has so many varied applications. Rules, rimming, rack, role-playing, red lipstick, respect…..And [...]

Q is for Queening and Quiz

First things first, I want to announce the winner of the trivia game from Dressing Up with Danielle and Cassidy on Friday night!
“Misty” won by answering the most sissy trivia questions correctly. We all had fun, even though I did find some pretty hard questions that seemed simple when I was looking at the [...]

O is for Orgasm Denial

I was trying to decide what O should stand for. I had a couple of ideas and then b4 suggested orgasm denial and I knew that was a perfect idea!
Orgasm denial is known as other things as well. Both erotic sexual denial and edging are names for orgasm denial, cock control can also be one, [...]

N is for Never Say Never

“Humiliation is the way to humility and without humility, nothing is pleasing to god”, said St. Francis of Assisi. Not that I’m particularly religious, but I like the sense that masochism can be viewed as a spiritual path, when it includes the mind rather than senseless violence against the sub’s body. But we [...]

M is for Mistress

Mistress. It’s just a simple word, nothing more. Yet it wields a vast amount of power. It’s a sign first of respect and then of submission. There are many definitions of it online. You could look up any one of them and find a bit about humiliation or BDSM or even courtesans. [...]

L is for Limits.

You can’t know your limits without trying, so it doesn’t make much sense for me to write about them. I can’t guess what your limits are or you mine. Will I stop when you say? Will you break or more exactly when will you break?
Unlike with most other topics, there is nothing rational about this [...]

K is for Kink

We all have them in one way or another. I thought K was the perfect opportunity to do something a little more personal and talk about kinks in general.
I hear all the time that someone likes something a little kinky or a lot kinky, but that is such a personal thing. What is kinky [...]

J is for Japanese Bondage.

I struggled for a bit with what to make this letter. I didn’t foresee, when I started this that I would one day come upon a letter that I knew very little about.
J seems to be that letter and so I’m at a bit of a loss, though I did, once started, realize that the [...]

I is for Intense

“Intense is BDSM politesse for very painful or humiliating.”

As a Mistress, I am very often far more sensual and less pain inflicting, though there are some who tell me my teasing can be quite painful. *giggle*
However, once in awhile I like to play with the painsluts and really have my way with them. I have [...]