A big hello to “chastised” who reminded me what the movie for this letter was going to be and good thing too, as I most likely would have forgotten and then been very upset with myself.
Also I wanted to let anyone know, who possibly checked my blog and wondered where my entries disappeared to, that it was simply a little computer glitch that will be repaired soon, so no worries if your favorite one is gone, this sexy phone sex mistress blog will be back up and running normally as soon as possible.
Now on to the T’s in the post. A tens unit is for erotic electrical stimulation. It is usually in the form of a violet wand, simply because of the many attachments that go along with those particular things. And in my opinion they are much prettier than anything else. The units send electrical impulses to the nerves in the body by passing the attachments over the skin. It can be used even to light flames on the skin. Pretty pink ones. *giggle* But that’s another story that I might share with you sometime if you are really good and call and ask nicely. You can’t expect your Empress Cassidy to tell you everything. You come up with a hot phone sex fantasy and I’ll tell you my story about the cross dressing cuckold who became a slave in the hopes he’d get to suck a cock.
Speaking of sucking and therefore of mouths, we have the movie Teeth. A mouth is most often where we find teeth, but in this movie the young innocent girl has also “vagina dentata”. You can figure out what that is and if not, well now is a great time to learn to use Google. What I will tell you is that I expected a horror movie and really this is a story of a young girl who in losing her innocence finds her true power within herself and learns about the ultimate kind of cock control.

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November 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment
[Hi everyone, you may notice that some of my posts seem to have disappeared and this one was posted sunday, but disappeared as well. Not to worry it's just a minor computer glitch, you know how they are. *giggle* All will be back soon and so you get this one and a brand new on all at once. ;)]
Hi there, I hope everyone had a great time at Ms. Viv’s Un-Birthday Party last night! It was a lot of fun for me to see everyone partying and lots of you stayed after for some chat and dancing at my Dare to Dance show!
My two choices for S actually kind of go together. Submission to a mistress, or a master should you choose, is something that is often misunderstood in society. Submissives give themselves to their Mistress, it isn’t forced, there is what is called a power exchange. The dominant is given the power to rule by the submissive. That power isn’t taken, it’s a willing choice. Many people misunderstand this and see the relationship as abuse or rape or any number of things, but it’s not like that at all. Abuse and rape are very different things and have no place in the BDSM lifestyle. They are crimes, pure and simple. But the submissive understands this and makes the choice to seek out the dom for what they need.
This often raises the question of where the true power in the relationship lies, but in any case it is a relationship. A submissive who needs his cock controlled, seeks out a mistress like those at stroke for me or tease mafia, one who wants to suck a cock but isn’t sure he can admit that will check out suck patrol and where can a wanna-be sissy go, well sissyville of course. There is also the deeper harsher side of dominance in domination hell and special dominance from a giantess as well. There are many places to seek out what you need and a submissive will find them and a Mistress to play them out with.
The movie Secretary is very much like this. A relationship develops between boss and secretary, but not just a simple sexual relationship, one like I have been talking about between submissive and master. It is shown in what is considered the “typical” fashion of male dominant female submissive, but we all know that isn’t typical at all. The gender of the players isn’t really the point of the movie, it’s the choice, and it’s the need in both to give up control and to control. While there were things about the movie, the ending for instance, that I didn’t especially like, the film itself is worth mentioning and worth a look.
So what do you think? Who has the real power?
Kinky Kisses,

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It’s finally here! Tonight at 9pm EST is The Rocky Horror Picture Show Party!
You’ll have a variety of Mistresses, from sensual princess to dangerous dom to guide you through the castle of Dr Frank N Furter. Come to community kink - hey that’s another K and we all know we LOVE kink- and step through the chat room castle door. We promise your greeter will be much hotter than any Igor you’d find in some other castle. This is after all a kinky sexy rock n’ roll castle, so the things you find here might be even more than you can handle. You can slip into the Study for some ghostly Transylvania sex stories with your storytellers Molly and Marissa, and don’t forget to write your own and mail it in to win a hot gift bag selected personally for you by LDW Mistresses. Or walk a little further down the hall to the Chapel of Sinners. Don’t expect to pray for your drinks in here, but rest assured Elizabeth will have you on your knees. You’ll hear the music wafting through all the rooms of the castle, but if you step across the hall into the Ballroom, you’ll find Olivia and your’s truly, Cassidy, playing music live on Cock Radio and a stumper of a Trivia/Scavenger Hunt game to win free minutes to use on calls with your favorite Mistress.
Don’t worry, we won’t send you far on your search, wouldn’t want you getting lost in the dark and running into something less dream and more nightmare. But we will expect you to have all your answers right and sent in to us by the end of the party. The first with all the answers right gets top prize, same for second and third. Now for the brave who think they can handle a little more pain you can slip upstairs to the Laboratory, where Sarah and Marlena are waiting for volunteers - if you aren’t willing you may be forced - to test their experiments on.
It’s almost Halloween, so expect lots of fun and make sure to slip on a costume before you come in, so we can see just what you are going to be tonight. All trivia winners will be announced at the afterparty in the Cock Radio room, where I’ll keep on rockin’ the radio and we’ll chat about parties, sex, and horror movies in honor of the holiday and many of your Rocky Horror Party Mistresses will still be there too, ruling the night.
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This time I is a fun one. We have an awesome party coming up this weekend. It’s the Rocky Horror Picture Show and EVERYONE should come for some sexy and scary fun with us.
You can only imagine I’m sure how Including People could tie into the party and a fun sexual experience. I personally love to have a bunch of my girlfriends there when I’m humiliating a slave or dressing up a sissy. And who doesn’t want some hot real men included in a cuckold fantasy. But the very BEST thing about including people, is that here with us you can talk to many mistresses and not just one at a time. You can have us on the phone with you, teasing and laughing and demanding you do all kinds of things to keep us happy. At the same time you can talk to one Mistress who is harsh and tough and another who is a giggling cruel princess, amused at the torment you are receiving or maybe happily doling it out herself. See how much FUN including other people can be! Especially if you are brave enough to try to handle many of us at once. Are you? I dare you.
And I dare you to show up Saturday night for the sexy scary last party before Halloween! There will be teasing and torturing, music and mayhem, ghost stories, trivia and costume contests with lots of amazing prizes!! If you don’t recognize I Can Make You a Man as a song from the movie, than you will, after all who can forget “…in just seven days, I can make you a man…”. Especially is you think you are brave enough to show up and handle the haunted castle of kink! Come through the Castle Door into the Laboratory, the Chapel, a Study and the Ballroom. We’ll be there at Community Kink! The costume contest starts later today so keep checking back to Mistress Madness for all the details!
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H is a great one for this time of year because it’s also for Halloween which is coming up soon. And for those of you who may not have noticed it is one of my favorite holidays. Not that I have anything against Christmas, what girl does? I love presents!
But Halloween is fun and I’m excited about our awesome party coming up this Saturday at 9pm EST at Community Kink and on Cock Radio. You’ve had a whole month of parties, everyone giving out great prizes and giving you lots of opportunity to interact with the Mistresses. This weekend is the last and let me be biased and say the best party.
H for Horror, as in The Rocky Horror Picture Show party, on October 25th!
More details will be coming soon, so keep your eye on Mistress Madness and get out those fishnets and wedding gowns so you can dress up and come party with us all night.
There will be something for everyone, from sissies and crossdressers to stroker boys and those of you who just need to be humiliated.
And that’s my other H, here today. Humiliation. There are so many different types and levels of humiliation. From Clucky the Dumb Fuck to a princess giggling at you while she controls your worthless cock and you try to get her attention. Cuckolds who like to think they are men until they are sucking the cock of the REAL man who is about to fuck their wife. Humiliation comes in all forms and I have to say that I love it. I laugh more when I know someone is completely humiliated than just about any other time. You know you deserve it and need a Mistress to laugh at you and make you face what a loser you really are.
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October 16th, 2008 · 1 Comment
G was an easy one, anyone who ever tried to escape a beautiful and powerful Giantess knows this is a word you never ever forget.
There is nothing more exciting than being controlled, your cock, your mind, your every fantasy. But should you encounter a Giantess much more will be taken from you. You will no longer be a man, but a tiny insignificant bit of debris for her to scrape off her shoe, total humiliation. The tinier the better for the most part, but I’d never want you so tiny that you weren’t still recognizable as the cocky foolish man you once were. I like to know you are still large enough for me to see your little face contort into a scream when the bed I’ve given you in my Christian Louboutin pump turns into a torture chamber as I seem to forget you are there and slip my foot in. Maybe if you scream loud enough I’ll stop. You watch my toes slip past you into the tip of the shoe and you breathe a sigh of relief a moment before you scream again as the ball of my foot comes down on your little legs and you look up. Momentarily thankful for my high arch, you quickly realize that while your groin may go untouched your head is in the prime spot for my heel to come down and….Crush you? Stop and laugh at you?
G is also for Gothika. This was far scarier and more gruesome than I expected. Really well done and has the sexy Halle Berry and Penelope Cruz in it, so that’s a plus in my book. But this film is all about control and a serious mental mind fuck that twists and turns you from reality to dream and back again. I’d tell you I recommend it, but I wouldn’t be including it here if I didn’t. It intrigues me with it’s dungeons and cages. Think Disturbia and you’ll understand what I mean.

Now for our important reminder about Mistress Madness! This Saturday night, at 9pm EST hop on The Temptation Train and party with some very sexy Mistresses. Be sure to get your Boarding Pass and get it punched before the party so you can win even more prizes. You can click on the above graphic for all the details. And check out the one below for a look at my tat and info on my radio show!

Dance Dance Dance
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October 14th, 2008 · 4 Comments

F is the letter we are on now, halfway through this fun and spooky month. And it can also stand for fun, which is what everyone had on Saturday night at the Casino Royale and even though Name that Tune fizzled at the after party everyone was still in great spirits and truly enjoying themselves. I’ll let you know next time what we’ll be playing instead this Saturday night!
Now for some more fun, F is for Fellatio. Known by most of us as blow jobs, cock sucking, wrapping your lips around that big dick and sucking every drop of cum from it. You know that thing that we ladies at Suck Patrol love to talk about and you love to do. One of the best things about cock sucking is that encompasses almost every major fetish. It is not only a form of cock control and cuckolding, but also THE major aspect of forced fem and something every sissy secretly, or in many cases not to secretly, wants. Telling a submissive to drop to his knees and open his mouth to receive a cock, real or strap-on, and perform fellatio is quite a powerful tool in training. One of the most powerful in my opinion, as if requires complete submission and can be both exciting and humiliating depending on the circumstance.
F this month is also for Final Destination. This movie is simply about fate. Is it something you can change or control or is it preset? When a premonition keeps a boy from getting on a plane that crashes, he cheats death and death comes after him. So you can watch and think, was I meant to be submissive? Did every turn you ever took in your life lead to you being locked in chastity? Or did it just happen?
Nothing just happens.
Now speaking of embarking on a journey, Destination Saturday Night Party! The Temptation Train is leaving the station at 9pm EST to take you on a trip you will never forget. Prizes, fun, kinky naughty moments and great music in the chat room at community kink. Be there Saturday night and then stay and hang out with me in the Cock Radio room for the after party. You can click the graphic for lots more details on the night and getting your ticket punched!

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October 10th, 2008 · 1 Comment
Now we are back to my alphabetical listing of what is sexy and scary, at least this month we are adding in the scary. Usually we just do sexy, but I can’t resist the spooky Halloween things, so we are adding that in.
Before I get too far, I want to say hello to Kathryn, for keeping me occupied for hours and suggesting lots of tunes for my Name that Tune game we’ll be playing on Cock Radio Saturday night at 10 pm EST. That is my Dare to Dance radio show and you can join me by listening in and coming to the Cock Radio Chat Room at community kink. I’m there every Saturday night, but this month it’s extra special because we are the after party for all the hot exciting parties going on from 9pm EST until 10 pm EST EVERY Saturday Night in October.

This week is the Casino Royale! So bring your lucky dice and order a martini – shaken not stirred – to celebrate Bond, James Bond and win some fun, exciting, and very sexy prizes! You can check out Mistress Madness for more details.
Now, on to E. Edges, or edging, not the same thing at all, but both very hot. Edging is simply a tool used in cock control to tease and deny all you little stroker boys. Bringing you right up to the edge and not quite over it. For those of you who love that, you should try playing Pass the Penis. It’s one of my favorite games and I know many of the Mistresses LOVE playing as much as I do.
But I’m talking about Edges. Those things often known as boundaries that we must push past. Pushing harder and harder, pressing on past where you ever believed you were capable of going. We all set up limits, boundaries, edges. We step up to the lip of the abyss and stare in, excited and terrified but aching to step off that edge. Sometimes you submissive boys are too afraid to step and that’s when your wonderfully helpful Mistress steps up and pushes you off. Making you do more and go farther than you ever thought possible. Where are your edges? Do you know? I’d be happy to help you find them. *giggle*
And of course we have E for Evil Dead. This movie is horribly gruesome and difficult to watch in some places, as well as incredibly funny in others. It’s a must for any horror fan though, because you haven’t seen anything if you haven’t seen a tree come to life and become a lover. Yes that sounds exactly like what it is. This was shot originally in Michigan where you may or may not know I was born, before moving out to sunny, though foggy at the moment, California. What I can tell you about it, is that everyone is pushed over the edge of the abyss and forced to jump.
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This is just a fun add in that steps a little out of order but as you scroll down you’ll see why.

First and foremost, is Casino Royale, at community kink this weekend. That’s right boys, are you feeling lucky? I hope so, because this coming Saturday night you are invited at 9 pm EST to the Casino Royale. There will be many super sexy Mistresses waiting to fulfill all your fantasy phone needs and games and prizes as well. You can check out Mistress Madness for more details.
Those of you, who were at Carnivale last weekend, know that when we say prizes, we mean real ones. You can win amazing things like free calls! So you know you should show up and play along and hope you are one of the lucky ones. And when the party ends at 10 pm EST, stay for the after party with me, Empress Cassidy. We’ll keep the party going in the Cock Radio room with a fun stroking game of Name that Tune.
Now on to the funniest part of any post I’ve ever written here in my blog. Clucky the Dumb Fuck.

As you can see, Clucky is a very stupid human who actually tarred and feathered himself. Thanks to Ms. Elizabeth I had the pleasure of laughing at Clucky while he clucked – One for no and Two for yes - always agreeing when I said he was so stupid with a double cluck. He also buzzed himself, with the electronic shocker he had wrapped around his little chicken parts, squalling in wild clucking each time. You find out more about Clucky at Mistress Elizabeth’s blog, prepare to laugh at his humiliation.
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October 4th, 2008 · 1 Comment
This month you get LOTS of special things on Saturday night!

Starting out with CARNIVALE! Tonight! At 9pm EST in the community kink chat rooms. Four amazingly gorgeous Mistresses are hosting the party, but many of us will be there to play along. Incredibly sexy, Ms Carmen, will guide you through the experience letting you know just where all the hot things are for you not to miss. The ever gorgeous Tia will be spinning tunes for you, so keep yourself tuned in to Cock Radio. Mysterious and beautiful Ms. Hannah will be telling your future with her sexy Tarot deck and the amazing Ms Ally herself will be serving up drinks and manning the bar, so step up and turn yourself over to the Carnivale, tonight!
All 4 Mistresses will be available right after the party and many other Mistresses will be taking calls during the fun. Prizes, including some FREE calls will be given away, so don’t miss it!!
And right afterwards you can stay tuned to the radio and dance into the night with me, Empress Cassidy on Dare to Dance. That’s the name of my new radio show, right here on Cock Radio.
Every Saturday night at 10 pm EST, you can find me in the cock radio chat room at Community Kink and on the radio, playing fast paced music and chatting with everyone. I take song requests and chat with everyone and we’ll be playing a great new stroking game along the lines of Name that Tune.
I play it, you name the song.
I’ll play 2 seconds of a song, if you get it, you get 10 strokes. If no one gets it, I’ll play 2 more seconds of it, bringing us up to 4 total. If you get it, you get 8 strokes. Still no one? 6 seconds of the song and you get 6 strokes. No one yet? Well, we will keep going. 8 seconds of the song, you get 4 strokes. 10 seconds and we’re down to 2 strokes. After that I’ll tell you what it is and no one gets to stroke.
Oh and by the way, if any Mistress in the room gets it first, you get nothing.
Sound fair? Of course it is, because what your Mistress says goes.
You, of course, can’t stroke or cum if it’s against your training schedule.
So, every Saturday night, come to Club Cassidy, otherwise known as the Cock Radio chat room and Dare to Dance!
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